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An evocative memoir of food & family history, “Tastes like War” is the next Big Library Read pick


May 01, 2023

Part food memoir, part sociological investigation, Grace M. Cho takes an unflinching look at the immigrant experience through the roots of her mother’s schizophrenia in Tastes Like War. This Big Library Read pick is the latest selection in the global digital book club that allows readers worldwide to borrow the same book at the same time. From May 3-17, 2023, the award-winning memoir will be available to readers worldwide in both ebook and audiobook on the Libby reading app without any waitlists or holds.

Author Grace M. Cho
Author Grace M. Cho

Cho, a sociologist at the City University of New York, intricately mixes memories of her mother and Korean meals alongside historical trauma and the psychological toll of racism in this powerfully moving memoir. Using food to reflect and reconnect with her mother, she creates an intimate portrait of mental illness and the scars of xenophobia in stunning, yet heartbreaking detail. This timely novel was a finalist for the 2021 National Book Award for Nonfiction, winner of the 2022 Asian/Pacific American Award in Literature and a Time and NPR Best Book of the Year in 2021.

If you’re looking for a new book for your local book club meeting, this is a great pick that will encourage thoughtful and important discussions. Don’t have a local club? Join other readers in the discussion board, share your thoughts and get a new perspective on the book from a fellow reader.

More on the book

Tastes Like War

Grace M. Cho grew up as the daughter of a white American merchant marine and the Korean bar hostess he met abroad. They were one of few immigrants in a xenophobic small town during the Cold War, where identity was politicized by everyday details—language, cultural references, memories and food. When Grace was 15, her dynamic mother experienced the onset of schizophrenia, a condition that would continue and evolve for the rest of her life.

In her mother's final years, Grace learned to cook dishes from her parent's childhood in order to invite the past into the present, and to hold space for her mother's multiple voices at the table. And through careful listening over these shared meals, Grace discovered not only the things that broke the brilliant, complicated woman who raised her—but also the things that kept her alive.

Cho is also the author of Haunting the Korean Diaspora: Shame, Secrecy, and the Forgotten War, a history of how Koreans in the U.S. have been profoundly affected by the Korean War, uncovering the silences and secrets that still surround it.

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About the Author

Annie Suhy has been working in the book industry since 2006. When she’s not working, practicing yoga, or petting cats, she’s doing paint-by-numbers and buying more plants. An avid poetry fan, her favorite collection is "The Splinter Factory" by Jeffrey McDaniel.


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